Nev's younger brother Mustafa was there to pick us up in Istanbul. Mustafa is a mechanical engineer and at the time was working on a project in Istanbul. His job was to construct and maintain the crane used to build the tallest building in Turkey at the time, Işbank Tower. So he was the first person in the family to know his way around Istanbul.
Before heading to Ankara, Mustafa drove us along the Bosphorus, the channel that connects the Black Sea to the Sea of Marmara and separates Europe from Asia. We ate lunch outside at the Feriye Lokantası, a restaurant converted from a 19th century Ottoman police station. The restaurant is on the European side of the Bosphorus and overlooks the Asian side.
Mustafa showed me where the restrooms were. At first I was unsure about how to flush the toilet. Not finding a lever to push, I found a knob located on the side of the toilet. I turned it and water squirted straight out of the toilet from a little tube that was sticking out. The water sprayed my feet and got the floor all wet. Then I noticed the button on the wall above the toilet, pushed it, and successfully flushed the toilet.
After we were done eating, Mustafa showed us the construction site of the Işbank Tower, headquarters of the Turkish Commercial Bank. At the time the construction site was a huge pit with the growing skeleton of the building. The tower opened in 2000. At 52 floors it was the tallest building in Turkey until 2009. Işbank Tower has several features similar to the Trump Tower in New York because the same architecture firm designed both.
As we drove around this part of Istanbul, we saw a lot of construction. Many of the streets were torn up with piles of broken concrete on the sides. The buildings had many stories and looked run-down. I noticed a lot of laundry hanging on many of the balconies of the high rise apartment buildings.
The traffic is insane here. There are lines on the roads indicating where the lanes are, but they don't seem to be used. There were usually four lanes of traffic and only three lanes painted on the road. Cars changed lanes without much warning, if any, and horns blared constantly. I saw a lot of big trucks on the road, at least as many as cars. The trucks were the size of army trucks, but were brightly painted in different colors. I didn't see any semi-trucks. I did see a lot of billboards on the highway between Istanbul and Ankara like this:
İçinizdeki Trafik Canavarını Durdurun
which means "Control the Traffic Monster Within You".
Mustafa drove like everyone else we saw. He passed every car and truck we caught up to even when there weren't passing lanes. Sometimes as we were passing, there would be an oncoming car and we would fit in the middle. The scariest part of this was that Mustafa's cell phone kept ringing throughout the drive to Ankara as everyone wanted to know how close we were. And Mustafa kept answering it while skirting traffic!
There is a new toll highway from Istanbul to Ankara. Unfortunately, in several places they are still working on it and you have to get off the new road, pay the toll, and drive on the old road which is pitted and has only one lane each way. Then you get back on the new road, waiting in line at the entrance to get a ticket to turn in later when you pay the toll. We had to do this three or four times. Sometimes there isn't any notice that the toll road is stopping until you get to the end and have to back up to get off. This was difficult when there were cars behind us. At one of the toll booths, none of the machines were working. Mustafa made a comment under his breath, backed up and went around everyone, driving over the curb to do so, and then went through the gate. Nev and I looked at each other, but didn't say anything. We found out later that if you don't pick up a ticket at the booth, you just pay as if you drove the entire length of the highway when you get to the pay station. On a straight part of the toll road, Nev drove for a little while. I won't complain about his driving any more.
Sunday, April 4, 2010
Wednesday, March 31, 2010
Blog About Turkish Food
Nev just found this site and I checked it out and just have to share it here. It is all about Turkish food with fabulous photos.
http://eatandletlive.com/
http://eatandletlive.com/
Tuesday, March 30, 2010
Our First Trip 1997: Getting There
Kubi was 2 months old for his passport photo. I had to lay him on a blanket on the floor for them to take his picture. (Kubi was 5 months old when we ended up going to Turkey.)
Nev and I had been married less than a year when he got his 2-month sabbatical from work. We decided to take a five-week trip to Turkey near the end of August so his family could meet Kubi and me. Nev hadn't been back to Turkey for over five years, so it was as exciting for him as it was for me.
There are no direct flights from Portland to Turkey. We ended up flying to Chicago and then taking Turkish Airlines to Istanbul where Nev's brother Mustafa picked us up to drive us to Ankara where Nev's mom lived.
I had never flown internationally before, let alone with an infant. Chicago O'Hare Airport was a zoo. It was so enormous and took us a while to find our way around. They had interesting toilets, though. The toilet seats had a plastic protector that looked like plastic wrap. When you pressed a button, the plastic rotated along the seat to the back where it gets removed or cleaned or something. I have never seen anything like it before or since.
I love Turkish Airlines. The food is good. Not Turkish, but good. And you get a lot. They also give you little gift packs with toothpaste, toothbrush, comb, eye mask, and socks. The service is superb. The flight attendants spoke Turkish to Nev and English to me. Every time they went by, they would play with Kubi. We got seats in the bulkhead section and they gave us a little bassinet that fit on the wall, so Kubi could sleep comfortably and we didn't have to hold him the entire trip. Nev and I wished they had bassinets in our size. The flight attendants let us keep our stuff on the floor in front of us where it was handy. I was surprised that they didn't ask us to stow our carry-ons in the overhead bins during take-off. I'm sure they would do so now.
Turkey is ten hours ahead of Pacific Standard Time. We left our house at 4 AM on August 22nd. When we arrived at Istanbul at 10:15 AM August 23rd Turkish time, we had been traveling 20 hours.
Kubi was a hit with the airline attendants. We got off last, so it would be easier. While we were getting our stuff together, a woman attendant snatched Kubi up. When I got him back, he had lipstick kisses on his face. While we were waiting in line to get our passports stamped, several people in line came over to talk to him. Nev had no trouble getting visas for Kubi and me. He used his Turkish passport, so he didn't need a visa.
All of our luggage made it to Turkey except for Kubi's umbrella stroller. Back in Chicago, we were told to leave the stroller in the hall outside the entrance to the plane. We assumed they would check it for us, but it didn't make it on the plane. However, if we were going to lose anything, the stroller was the most expendable. The least expendable was the small blue suitcase full of five weeks of Enfamil formula. I had called the formula company and learned that they don't sell it in Turkey and I didn't want to change formulas when Kubi was used to this one. (Note: the airline sent our stroller to our home address six months later. Unfortunately we had already bought another stroller once we got home from Turkey.)
Nev and I had been married less than a year when he got his 2-month sabbatical from work. We decided to take a five-week trip to Turkey near the end of August so his family could meet Kubi and me. Nev hadn't been back to Turkey for over five years, so it was as exciting for him as it was for me.
There are no direct flights from Portland to Turkey. We ended up flying to Chicago and then taking Turkish Airlines to Istanbul where Nev's brother Mustafa picked us up to drive us to Ankara where Nev's mom lived.
I had never flown internationally before, let alone with an infant. Chicago O'Hare Airport was a zoo. It was so enormous and took us a while to find our way around. They had interesting toilets, though. The toilet seats had a plastic protector that looked like plastic wrap. When you pressed a button, the plastic rotated along the seat to the back where it gets removed or cleaned or something. I have never seen anything like it before or since.
I love Turkish Airlines. The food is good. Not Turkish, but good. And you get a lot. They also give you little gift packs with toothpaste, toothbrush, comb, eye mask, and socks. The service is superb. The flight attendants spoke Turkish to Nev and English to me. Every time they went by, they would play with Kubi. We got seats in the bulkhead section and they gave us a little bassinet that fit on the wall, so Kubi could sleep comfortably and we didn't have to hold him the entire trip. Nev and I wished they had bassinets in our size. The flight attendants let us keep our stuff on the floor in front of us where it was handy. I was surprised that they didn't ask us to stow our carry-ons in the overhead bins during take-off. I'm sure they would do so now.
Turkey is ten hours ahead of Pacific Standard Time. We left our house at 4 AM on August 22nd. When we arrived at Istanbul at 10:15 AM August 23rd Turkish time, we had been traveling 20 hours.
Kubi was a hit with the airline attendants. We got off last, so it would be easier. While we were getting our stuff together, a woman attendant snatched Kubi up. When I got him back, he had lipstick kisses on his face. While we were waiting in line to get our passports stamped, several people in line came over to talk to him. Nev had no trouble getting visas for Kubi and me. He used his Turkish passport, so he didn't need a visa.
All of our luggage made it to Turkey except for Kubi's umbrella stroller. Back in Chicago, we were told to leave the stroller in the hall outside the entrance to the plane. We assumed they would check it for us, but it didn't make it on the plane. However, if we were going to lose anything, the stroller was the most expendable. The least expendable was the small blue suitcase full of five weeks of Enfamil formula. I had called the formula company and learned that they don't sell it in Turkey and I didn't want to change formulas when Kubi was used to this one. (Note: the airline sent our stroller to our home address six months later. Unfortunately we had already bought another stroller once we got home from Turkey.)
Thursday, March 25, 2010
My Accent Can Get Me Into Trouble
August 1997
Nev's friend Evren and his fiance Hülya were visiting from Canada. Hülya had made a yogurt cucumber drink called cacık (pronounced juh-jik) that Nev really loves. When I asked Hülya how to make cacık, she looked at me like how could you ask me that. Then she said something in Turkish and Nev answered something back and they all started laughing. Nev explained that Hülya thought that I had said çocuk (pronounced cho-jook) which means child.
Nev's friend Evren and his fiance Hülya were visiting from Canada. Hülya had made a yogurt cucumber drink called cacık (pronounced juh-jik) that Nev really loves. When I asked Hülya how to make cacık, she looked at me like how could you ask me that. Then she said something in Turkish and Nev answered something back and they all started laughing. Nev explained that Hülya thought that I had said çocuk (pronounced cho-jook) which means child.
Monday, March 22, 2010
Introduction
When I first met my husband in 1992, like the typical American, I knew very little about the country Turkey. I knew it was in the Middle East (though, there is a lot of debate about whether it is considered Middle Eastern or European) and was a Muslim country and that was about it. Fortunately I hadn't seen Oliver Stone's Midnight Express, so I didn't have any negative preconceived ideas about the country.
Since then I've visited Turkey four times and we are going again this summer. We have a house there and all of my husband Nev's family live there. Turkey is an amazing country. It is beautiful, full of history, unique as it is the only country to rest on two continents, and is known for its friendly, loving people.
In this blog I want to share my experiences visiting Turkey and what I've learned about Turkish culture living with a Turkish husband and being immersed in the culture during all of our trips.
Since then I've visited Turkey four times and we are going again this summer. We have a house there and all of my husband Nev's family live there. Turkey is an amazing country. It is beautiful, full of history, unique as it is the only country to rest on two continents, and is known for its friendly, loving people.
In this blog I want to share my experiences visiting Turkey and what I've learned about Turkish culture living with a Turkish husband and being immersed in the culture during all of our trips.
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